Even with verification, meeting someone you met online carries inherent risks. Follow these safety fundamentals.
Your safety is your responsibility. When transitioning from text to an offline meetup, please follow these safety fundamentals:
Always tell a trusted person where you are going, who you are meeting, and when you expect to be back. Have an exit plan, and have a friend call you during the meetup to see if all is well.
Keep your initial meetings in well-lit, public locations (e.g., busy cafes, bars, or restaurants). Do not go to a private residence until you have established a high level of trust.
Always arrange your own transportation to and from the meetup. Do not rely on your match for a ride.
If something feels "off" or if your match behaves in a way that makes you uncomfortable, leave immediately. Your safety is more important than politeness.
In the interest of protecting your identity, we highly recommend using a service such as SLYNUMBER*.